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One Thing We Never Talk About, Competitive Advantage

Ryan Thogmartin by Ryan Thogmartin
October 22, 2025
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We specialize in helping funeral homes find strategic approaches to social media and social networking. Our strategies help funeral homes create relevant and profitable experiences in social media.


Small Business Trends published a great article last week about businesses using social media for more than just marketing and measuring customer demographics. Social media is about engagement, visual storytelling, customer service, but one thing we never talk about is “competitive advantage“, and social media dominates in this area.

If you aren’t paying attention to your competition on social media, I want to help you start practicing.  The fact that so many small businesses are on Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and elsewhere means that there are plenty examples out there of what’s working – and what’s not working.

Let’s look at four questions you can ask to guide your competitive research in social media:

  • Who are your competitors targeting?
  • How often are they talking?  How often are they interacting?
  • Are they peppering their conversation with valuable content or sales-y pushes?
  • In what light do they cast the competition (i.e. you)?

Targets

Check out what your competition is doing.  Ask yourself who they’re targeting, and whether or not it seems to be working.  Collect your answers; now do it better.

Frequency

Make observations about what percentage of customers your competition is replying to.  Does everyone get an answer, or do only the “interesting comments” get responses from the company?

Value Versus Sales Driven Content

Of course, it’s okay to have some sales content from time to time, but even this sales-driven content should have value.  Take a look at what your competitors are doing, and try to match or beat their ratios… the more non-sales content you can offer, the better.

Treatment of Competition

If you spend any time at all perusing small business’s Facebook and Twitter pages, you’re sure to come across some competition bashing.  Avoid it like the plague.  The reason I advise businesses to look for this practice in their competition is because it should incentivize you to behave properly in case the temptation ever arises.

You Can’t Afford Not to Do These Things

The beauty of Facebook and Twitter is how public the platforms are.  If you aren’t spying on your competition, you’re missing out on one of the easiest and cheapest methods of competitive research.  Get going by asking these four questions!

Read the full report from Small Business Trends

Ryan Thogmartin
Ryan Thogmartin

Ryan Thogmartin is deathcare’s most disruptive voice. The guy who turned a historically silent profession into a content-driven, culture-shaping, conversation-dominating landscape. As the CEO of DISRUPT Media, the largest and most creative agency in funeral service, Ryan has spent over a decade helping funeral companies win attention, build brand authority, and grow call volume with bold creative that actually converts. He’s also the founder and publisher of ConnectingDirectors.com, the largest and most influential publication in deathcare, reaching more funeral professionals every month than any other platform in the profession’s history.

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  1. fluidpusher says:
    14 years ago

    I disagree. Don’t concentrate on your competition, just serve your families to the best of your abilities, treat people fairly, and concentrate on yourself.

  2. Tim O'Brien says:
    14 years ago

    You should do both. If you don’t “spy,” or research your competition as Ryan says, you might very well miss something important that they are doing that for some reason you are not aware of. If you don’t serve your families the best you can, you will not get the referrals and 2nd services that are the majority of your business. One other factor to consider. In the NFDA Consumer Survey, 20%, 1 out of 5, people chose their Funeral Home based on location. So, like a good Real Estate Agent, do not neglect to farm your area.

    • ryanthogmartin says:
      14 years ago

      You are correct Timothy. Businesses, funeral homes included, need to do both. You must “farm your area”, but also keep a close watch on your competition. Watching your competition doesn’t mean copying what they are doing, but pay attention to what they are doing and focus on the areas where they are not meeting the “needs” of their customer.

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