This post originally appeared in eFuneral’s Funeral Director Blog.
In full disclosure, my background is likely a bit different than yours if you’re a funeral professional. I went to business school – not mortuary school. I learned from some of Ohio’s top technology entrepreneurs – I did not apprentice any Funeral Directors. I’ve given back to my community by serving as my hometown’s official Entrepreneur-in-Residence – not by taking care of my grieving neighbors (at least not the way that you do).
In fact, my background is so different from yours – that it would probably be pretty scary for me to have to embalm somebody or to be turned upon to take care of an emotionally drained family who has just lost somebody that they’ve loved…at 3am. After all, that’s not what I went to school or trained for.
For that very reason, if you find yourself as a funeral professional that is afraid to innovate – I don’t blame you. But as somebody who has seen first-hand how technology can change lives – from helping calm patients dealing with traumatic hospital visits to teaching children learn new languages – I know that innovation is something to embrace and not be afraid of.
I’ve had the chance to meet some very innovative funeral professionals. I’ve also met others who view technology and innovation with heavy skepticism. If you are one of these funeral professionals – and find yourself wanting to embrace technology and innovation but are simply unsure as to how – consider these suggestions:
Conduct an experiment.
You don’t have to go all-in right away in order to explore innovation within your funeral home – or utilizing technology you’re not comfortable with. With as little as a couple hundred dollars, you can conduct a very informative Google Adwords test. Don’t know how to use Google Adwords? Their team will literally walk you through setup over the phone – for free. Google will even give you $75 in credit to use, minimizing your investment in conducting such an experiment. Whether it’s testing with Google Adwords or a simple marketing newsletter – perhaps some families will find you that wouldn’t have otherwise. What do you have to lose by simply trying?
Ask for help.
You don’t have to be the expert at everything. There are likely students at your local university who know more about social media than many of your peers who are looking for professional opportunities, be it an internship or otherwise. Host an intern in exchange for class credit. You may be surprised by what you can gain in having a college-educated digital native helping you get up and running. Better yet, get an expert to help you. Ryan Thogmartin (who runs both Connecting Directors and Disrupt Media Group) would be happy to share more on how he has helped funeral homes embrace social media.
Take a step out of your comfort zone.
You are looked upon within your community as the leader within your field when it comes to funeral services. Use that cache to get time on the calendar with other experts in your community – namely as it relates to technology and innovation. Does your community have a couple of tech startups? Take their founders to lunch and ask lots of questions. Does your city have a university – be it state, private, or even community college? Find out who the technology professors are and set up a meeting. Believe me, they’ll likely be very open to sharing their perspective with another community expert such as yourself.
In this day and age, no profession is subject to immunity from the wonderful world of innovation. Don’t be afraid of that – embrace it, and use it to build even deeper relationships within your community.

Here is my concerns as a long time owner and operator of a firm.
Is eFuneral trying to help us as funeral directors or are they trying to help consumers get rock bottom pricing?
There are many unique qualities that each of our funeral homes offer that can’t be delivered via an online quote.
My concern with this new interest in taking our businesses to the web is that we remove the ability for consumers to get a true feel for the services we provide, and are instead looking at a cold and distant form of communication via email.
Once again, this appears to be a “solution” in search of a problem.
Gary, thanks for your comment. The article really wasn’t meant to promote eFuneral, but I’m happy to answer your question.
eFuneral helps both families *and* funeral professionals. We don’t believe that it’s an either/or scenario. That said, our aim is to not help consumers get “rock bottom” pricing. It’s to help them get information that they need to make a more informed decision of who to first contact. Pricing certainly is a factor for families, but it’s our aim to help funeral homes differentiate themselves on service quality. One way we do this is to allow funeral homes to showcase *verified* reviews from real families that have used their service in the past.
Keep in mind that the families turning to us are undecided. If that family already has a deep connection with a funeral home, they won’t have a need for our service. In a neighborhood where there are 5-10 funeral homes within just a few miles, the reality is that the family likely isn’t going to visit or meet with every single funeral home in the area. Instead of *hoping* that you’re the one that the family reaches out to — eFuneral offers you a real opportunity to showcase your funeral home to that undecided family.
Can eFuneral (or the internet, in general) give families a *complete* sense of what you can offer as a funeral professional? Of course not. But we try to provide more information to families than what they can get by opening up the Yellow Pages or performing a simple internet search. The result is giving you, as a funeral professional, access to a family that might not have reached out directly to you.
I’m happy to answer any other questions directly at mike@eFuneral.com. My posts to this blog aren’t meant to be overly-promotional — but in this case, I wanted to be sure that your question was answered.
Mike:
Isn’t it against the NFDA’s Code of Conduct for funeral directors to pay eFuneral for leads / introductions to families?
This was copied directly from the NFDA Code of Conduct: Members shall not pay or offer to pay a commission or anything of value to third parties, such
as medical personnel, nursing home and hospice organizations or employees, clergy,
government officials or others, to secure deceased human remains for funeral or disposition
services.