Thinking of and praying for the families of the victims in Connecticut this morning. Tragedies like these never make sense, join us in lifting them up. – From the O’Connor Mortuary Facebook Page
When tragedies like this happen, and sadly they are becoming more frequent, how to do meet with the affected families? How do you console a mother or father who’s child has been innocently gunned down?
How do parents explain to the children who survive what happened to their best friend or teacher?
In times of tragedy the funeral home and funeral director become the center focus and gathering place of the community. How do you, the funeral director, stay the pillar, the soundboard for emotional grief-stricken community members?
What do you say? How do you perform your job while still being someone who is grieving from the tragedy as well?
This tragedy is going to affect many of our colleagues in the funeral profession, if you have been through a tragedy, where as the funeral director you were looked upon for guidance, what advice or instruction can you offer our colleagues who are going to be at the center of their community during this tragedy?
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I don’t know if there is any response that is appropriate or consoling in such an unspeakable tragedy. Such actions literally shake the foundations of faith for those of us that believe that good will always overcome evil. Our world has always endured senseless events and those personally involved have found a way to move forward. Sometimes there are no words to be expressed, just a tight hug and prayers that God will provide the survivors direction in the coming tough days ahead.
Like others have said, I do not believe there is any correct response to the questions you proposed. Each traumatic case is different as well as the needs of each family. You can act as a source of comfort with kind words and sympathies, but sometimes the only thing you may be able to do to bring comfort and understanding is a good solid hug and a prayer.